To love….or to be loved?…

To love or to be loved? Which one will
it be?

If you had a choice to love or be
loved,what would it be?

To love means to feel a happiness you
never felt before but also to endure
all the pain of this world!
To love is to cry, to smile,to
laugh,to be jealouse, to think and
sometimes to even feel pain!
To love is a powerful feeling that can
either destroy you or make you a
better person!

To be loved is wonderful! To have
someone that cares for you,has faith
and hope in you,never gives up on you
and is always there for you is
something that everyone wishs for!
To be loved might fulfill you or might
make you feel empty? To be loved but
not love in return might leave you
feeling numb for you are getting all
the care and attention from someone
but you never felt any of these things
for anyone.You only felt emptiness !
To feel is important but you are numb
to emotions and feelings,because you
simply do not love !

So my question is,if you had only one
choice to make which would it be
To love? Or be loved? and why did you
pick the answer you did?


If you love some one because you
think that he is really gorgeous…
then it’s not love ..
it’s ~ Infatuation ~……

If you love some one because you think
that youshouldn’t leave him because
others think that you shouldn’t …
then it’s not love..
it’s ~ compromise ~…….

If you love some one because
you think that you
cannot live with out his touch….
then it’s not love ..
it’s ~lust~……

If you love some one because you
have been kissed by him…
then it’s not love..
it’s ~ inferiority complex~……

If you love some one because you
cannot leave him thinking that
it would hurt his feelings..
then it’s not love ..
it’s ~charity~….

If you love some one because you
did every thing with him…
then it’s not love…
it’s ~friendship~…

but if you feel the pain of the other
person more than him
even when he is stable and you cry for
him …
that’s ~LOVE~

if you get attracted to other people
but stay with him without any
regrets…
that’s ~LOVE~

If you let him go knowing that he has
to
go but
deep inside you don’t want to …
that’s ~LOVE~